We all have our personal cliffs that we run up against. Rarely do we fall off and even rarer than that does life end after going over the cliff. It is a steep ride but with safety nets and sometimes over-stated concern, we survive.
My family has been falling down our fiscal cliff for quite some time. We manage to grab a root or branch that is sticking out, pull hard and climb back up the cliff face.
We went over our first cliff back in 2003. With perseverance we have moved to new places and tried to stay invested in savings, home and life-style. The lifestyle was the hardest to maintain and has suffered the most. After a nice, [seemingly] secure salary and savings, we entered into a zero-income lifestyle which required liquidating saving assets during the job search.
Rethink Possibilities
New job networking tools, techniques and training was required. The job search circle expanded from regional, to state, to "close to family", to the entire USA with consideration for overseas. After more than a year of sending out resumes, reaching out to colleagues, friends, family and recruiters, a contract 2500 miles from home was signed. That three- to six-month contract lasted 19 months with 60-70 hours a week of work. This was still more than a 50% cut in salary equivalent -- not to mention lack of savings and out-of-pocket benefits.
Now, after eight years and five employers later we are still coming up short. The life style has down-sized from renting a house to renting a single-bedroom apartment; from two cars to one car to no cars and walking to shopping, doctors, bank, etc. There are hidden benefits and hidden costs. Still not enough to start saving again and the salary is nearly where it was at the time of the first layoff. However, the earning power that was lost over eight years is compounded by six years of accumulated debt.
Don't Give Up
There is a light at the end of the tunnel, but it is very dim and has a tiny beam of light. The cash flow is still slightly negative, but near zero. With some additional belt tightening, if we get past April 15th, we could experience a positive cash flow for the first time in eight years.
Meanwhile, with all that budget planning, a second income and job skills retraining, the Federal Government's fiscal cliff and cost of living increases (the rent went up and so did groceries) has eroded our efforts back to zero.
Plan B
Plan B (probably on Plan F, G or H by now), is to find a way to increase the family revenue through some cleaver small business devices.
We know we are not unique, but this is one time that there isn't comfort in numbers. We offer our prayers and best wishes to anyone else who is living a similar, or possibly worse, experience. The comfort will come when we are all, once again, enjoying vacations with family, feeling financial security, sleeping a full night's sleep without stress and sharing more with others in need.